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4-months old

Hank turned 4-months old this past Monday, May 16th.  On Wednesday, he had his 4-month doctor's appointment and shots.  Here are his stats:

Height: 24 1/2" (60th percentile) - He has grown 1 1/2 inches since his last appointment.
Weight: 14 pounds 13 ounces (75th percentile) - He has gained 3 pounds 4.5 ounces.
Head Circumference: 43 cm (92nd percentile) - His head has grown 2 1/2 cm.

He is definitely a growing boy....especially his head!  Maybe that means that he has a big brain!  He did pretty well with his shots.  He is somewhat of a fussy baby so it was hard to tell how bad he really felt the night of his doctor's appointment.  I gave him a few doses of Tylenol over the course of the 1st 24 hours just to make sure that he wasn't hurting.  He never had a fever.

Here is what Hank is up to these days:

Hank has rolled over once, but I missed it.  We were in Tennessee and my mother-in-law was watching him while I was taking a shower.  We have been working on rolling over, but he has yet to do it again all by himself.  It only takes a little help from me to get him all the way over so I don't think that it will be long.

Hank smiles a lot...especially in the morning.  He loves his Baby Einstein play gym and that will sometimes keep him entertained for 30 minutes to an hour. 

His favorite song is "If You're Happy and You Know It."

He has strong legs and likes to practice standing up on your lap.

He genuinely laughed out loud for the first time today.  It happened while his daddy was playing with him and helping him to stand.

He has really started "talking" and cooing a lot over the past few weeks.

He loves his swing and still sleeps in it at night.  We are trying to transition him to his bed, though.  He does take some of his naps in his bed.  I hear that you need sleep habits determined by the time that the baby is 6 months old.  Otherwise, it will be hard to break those habits later.  Right now, Hank is asleep in his bed.  We'll see how long that lasts tonight.  The longest that he goes without waking is usually a 6-hour stretch at nighttime.  For the most part, he eats every 3 hours.  I guess that his good growth is evidence of that!

Hank is still drinking primarily breast milk from a bottle.  Occasionally we have to supplement with a little formula, but so far that has been rare.  Hank did get his first taste of apple juice this week to help a small issue with constipation.  He drank it right down and it worked like a charm.

When I was in nursing school, I had a clinical rotation at a pediatrician's office.  One thing I learned in that office was that older mom's in their 30's tended to be worriers while teen moms didn't seem to worry at all...probably because they weren't smart enough to know what to worry about.  I got a good chuckle because I wasn't going to be either one.  Unfortunately, that has come back to bite me because I have been the biggest worry wart since Hank was conceived.  While I was pregnant, I worried about him so much that I couldn't wait until he was born so that I wouldn't have sole responsibility for keeping him alive.  Now that he is here, I worry about him even more.  Is he hitting his milestones? Is he gaining enough weight?  Is he eating enough? Is he pooping enough?  For the first few weeks of his life, I would go to bed and just thank God that we kept him alive another day.  And I must admit that I still occasionally have those thoughts.  I guess that every first-time parent goes through these same feelings.  I hear that you get a lot more relaxed with the 2nd child.  But Hank's pediatrician reassured me that he is perfect in every way....just what a jittery new mom needed to hear.

I had another moment of clarity this week as well.  I worked this past Monday and Tuesday at my hospital while my mom babysat for Hank.  Since I only work a couple of days a month, I get stopped a lot while I am working and other nurses ask how Hank is doing and want to see pictures.  One kind nurse, who I hear has struggled with infertility, asked to see pictures.  When she was looking at the pictures, she told me how cute Hank was and said in a very sweet way, "I'm jealous."  I don't know why that struck a chord with me, but in that moment a wave of thankfulness came over me.  Being a parent is harder than I ever imagined, but I am so thankful that God blessed us with a beautiful, healthy, loving baby boy and I wouldn't trade my life now for the world.

I don't know what has me acting so sappy tonight.  I'm not usually that open with my emotions, but I guess that I have had a lot on my mind.

I will leave you with some of my favorite pictures of Hank from this past month:


Loving his Baby Einstenin Play Gym


Little smirk


"Maybe I will try this rolling over thing...."


4-month photo shoot


He looks like he is directing a band or a choir in this picture.


"I'm already 4-months old?  It feels like I just got here."


Small, sweet smile


Talking with dad.  I think he's pretty funny.


"My daddy is a good listener."


My favorite boys.


Being entertained in the bouncy seat while mommy gets ready for the day.


I love the toys on my bouncy seat!

Well, I hear Hank starting to fuss.  I better go and rescue him.....

Mother's Day and First Road Trip

I was so excited for my first Mother's Day. I was counting on Russ pampering me all day! Unfortunately, a few weeks before Mother's Day, we found out that Russ was going to have to go to Denmark for work. His flight was scheduled to leave the day before Mother's Day. I was pretty disappointed.

So I decided that to make Mother's Day special, Hank and I would take our first road trip to Tennessee to visit our relatives. My mother-in-law and father-in-law live in Lexington, TN so we were driving from Lexington to Lexington! Hank's great grandparents, Dee Dee and Grandaddy Pierce also live in Lexington, Tennesse so we got to visit them as well. I was very nervous about making the long drive all by myself. I also took our 50 pound dog, Scout, with me. I was so worried that Hank would have a meltdown right in the middle of 5 lanes of traffic in Nashville. The plan was to drop Russ off at Bluegrass Airport and then head straight to the in-laws. Hank was fussy on the way to the airport and I started to wonder what I had gotten myself into. However, once we arrived at the airport, I got him out of his carseat to say goodbye to his daddy. After I put him back in his carseat, he calmed down and went to sleep....and he slept the whole trip to Lexington! It only took us 4.5 hours to get there because as long as Hank was sleeping, then I wasn't stopping. I had just enough gas to get to their house. I was so thankful to God that our trip went well! I know that He was watching over us!

On the way back, Hank was a little fussier and we did have to stop once for a bathroom break for Scout and me and a feeding for Hank. I also decided to get gas during our stop. Another customer accidentally pre-paid on my pump because she didn't know what gas pump she parked at. How do you not pay attention to that? Luckily, I had cash to give the attendant since I had already pumped the gas that the other lady had paid for. So that fiasco didn't end up delaying us too much. I also went through the Wendy's drive through to get myself something to eat on the road. I got all of those things done in 30 minutes and was pretty proud of myself! So we made it back home in 5 hours.

We had a great time in Tennessee! My brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Nathan and Meridy Kizer, also came to visit for Mother's Day. They have an 11-month-old little boy named Denver. There is only 7 months age difference between our little guys and I am sure that they will have so much fun playing together once they get bigger. I can't believe that Denver will be a year old next month. It seems like only yesterday that we were getting the call that he was born!

We stayed busy all week. On Sunday, we went to church and for a Mother's Day lunch at Pin Oak Lodge. On Sunday night, we went back to church as the men of the church had a dessert cook-off for the ladies. It was delicious! On Monday, we went shopping in Jackson after we dropped Grandaddy Pierce off at the eye doctor. On Tuesday, Hank's other great grandmother, MeMe, came to visit from Arkansas. On Tuesday night, we went to a Survivor's Dinner with Nonnie as part of "Relay for Life." Nonnie has been cancer free for 7 years now and that makes us so happy! On Wednesday, we went shopping in town and met lots of Nonnie and Daddy Nelson's friends. After a busy week, we rested on Thursday so that we would have enough energy to make the long trip back home on Friday.

We had so much fun during our visit! We always get spoiled and it makes it hard to come back to reality. Here are a few pictures from our trip:


Mother's Day at Pin Oak Lodge
Front Row: Hank and Daddy Nelson
Back Row: Nonnie, Me, Denver, Meridy, Nathan, Dee Dee, Grandaddy Pierce


We took two group pictures and I couldn't decide which one was better so I posted both of them!
I love all of the bright colors in this picture!


Nonnie and Hank at Pin Oak Lodge
This was Nonnie's first Mother's Day as a grandmother since both Denver and Hank were born after last Mother's Day!


Daddy Nelson entertains Hank at the Survivor's Dinner.


MeMe and Hank


Denver with the dogs
Sissy is outside.
Scout and Baylor are inside wanting out.
Denver just started walking a few weeks ago. 
I am sure that it will seem like no time before Hank is joining him!

I would be remiss if I didn't give one last "Thank You" to Nonnie and Daddy Nelson for a great trip!  We had a wonderful time.  We can't wait to come back this summer when Russ can come with us!

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